We got to know of my pregnancy on 16th of January 2010. For me pregnancy was the most wonderful and emotional phase of my life, I am sure it must be for everyone. But I am not sure if it makes everyone as patient and as composed as it made me!! I was so happy of the feeling of this little one in my womb that even those emotional swings or any other physical discomforts could not touch me. Rather I became more conscious of my own health and of my family. I ate healthy, struggled to do regular exercise :-() and tried to be as happy as possible.
From initial dizziness, to that first feeling of the baby moving inside me. From that first ultrasound to the final one where we could even make out some features of the baby, the entire phase was such bliss that I want to live that again and again. I keep telling Mannu that I miss my pregnancy so much; I miss the time when I could feel my baby inside me. I really feel bad that I did not start capturing those feelings there and then to live them again through this blog :(.
We did have our own set of tough times during this phase when Mom (I will refer to my mom as "Mummy" and Mannu's mom as "Mom" throughout this blog) was suddenly detected of a major heart problem in February 2010 and was operated through an open heart surgery. It was the toughest time for mom, Rasmie (my sis in law) and Mannu but even I was emotionally very upset during all this. I have developed a special bond with Mom in last 5 years, we have been staying together for last 5 years and during this time I have even stayed with her alone ,when Mannu was on an official assignment, for almost 1.5 year. Thankfully toughest time passed by, after 2 months of surgery and initial recovery, mom shifted to Rashmie's place for almost 3 months since Rashmie wanted to take care of her during this time and also I was not in such a physical condition that I could take as good care of Mom as Rashmie would. During this time Mom organized for my "God Bharayi" with Rashmie's help on 7th of June 2010.
In this first post, I will share some glimpses of my "God Bharayi" pooja and of baby preps.
God Bharayi : This is a ceremony in which would be mom and dad perform a pooja and all the members of family worship for the well being of the baby and Momma. They fill the girl's lap with fruits, dry fruits and gifts as a symbol of blessings for a healthy child in her lap very soon.
I really am thankful to Mom and Rashmie for arranging all this.
Mannu and Me performing pooja :)
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Rashmie, Mom and Pari after performing the god bharayi
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Baby Preps :) (this was so exciting !!!!!)
I prepared a list of all the things we should be ready with before the new one arrives!!!
The first set of clothes we bought for the baby was two half sleeves sweaters. We bought these when we went to Kasauli in April 2010. Afterwards, there were some from Mother Care, some her nani gifted and some more we bought from Karol bagh. We bought a bath tub and all the other accessories from Karol Bagh. It was such a different and I should say "cute shopping"!! Both Mannu and I were so thrilled to see those tiny clothes for a new born that we could not even imagine how tiny would the baby be :)
Below are few glimpses of Mannu, Mom and Me preparing for baby's clothes before the new one arrived !!!
From initial dizziness, to that first feeling of the baby moving inside me. From that first ultrasound to the final one where we could even make out some features of the baby, the entire phase was such bliss that I want to live that again and again. I keep telling Mannu that I miss my pregnancy so much; I miss the time when I could feel my baby inside me. I really feel bad that I did not start capturing those feelings there and then to live them again through this blog :(.
We did have our own set of tough times during this phase when Mom (I will refer to my mom as "Mummy" and Mannu's mom as "Mom" throughout this blog) was suddenly detected of a major heart problem in February 2010 and was operated through an open heart surgery. It was the toughest time for mom, Rasmie (my sis in law) and Mannu but even I was emotionally very upset during all this. I have developed a special bond with Mom in last 5 years, we have been staying together for last 5 years and during this time I have even stayed with her alone ,when Mannu was on an official assignment, for almost 1.5 year. Thankfully toughest time passed by, after 2 months of surgery and initial recovery, mom shifted to Rashmie's place for almost 3 months since Rashmie wanted to take care of her during this time and also I was not in such a physical condition that I could take as good care of Mom as Rashmie would. During this time Mom organized for my "God Bharayi" with Rashmie's help on 7th of June 2010.
In this first post, I will share some glimpses of my "God Bharayi" pooja and of baby preps.
God Bharayi : This is a ceremony in which would be mom and dad perform a pooja and all the members of family worship for the well being of the baby and Momma. They fill the girl's lap with fruits, dry fruits and gifts as a symbol of blessings for a healthy child in her lap very soon.
I really am thankful to Mom and Rashmie for arranging all this.
Mannu and Me performing pooja :)
Rashmie, Mom and Pari after performing the god bharayi
Mummy, Divya (My bro's wife), Dadi, Bhaiya and Papa after performing
the god bharayi 
Baby Preps :) (this was so exciting !!!!!)
I prepared a list of all the things we should be ready with before the new one arrives!!!
The first set of clothes we bought for the baby was two half sleeves sweaters. We bought these when we went to Kasauli in April 2010. Afterwards, there were some from Mother Care, some her nani gifted and some more we bought from Karol bagh. We bought a bath tub and all the other accessories from Karol Bagh. It was such a different and I should say "cute shopping"!! Both Mannu and I were so thrilled to see those tiny clothes for a new born that we could not even imagine how tiny would the baby be :)
Below are few glimpses of Mannu, Mom and Me preparing for baby's clothes before the new one arrived !!!
Other than this, we got a new bigger bed so that the three of us can fit in it. We checked out the cradle that we would buy once the baby would be home since it was available very near our house. Mom wanted to gift that to her grand son/daughter when she would arrive !!
The due date was 13th Sep 2011. Mannu and I packed my hospital bag and baby's bag on 5th Sep 2011.This was just in time since we had to leave for hospital on 6th. Somehow I knew that now I would be back home with my little one in my arms :)
Hey Srishti darling!
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful surprise this blog is! Voila. So exciting to see you record your journey of motherhood - right from the little seed in your tummy to this wonder girl that has conquered your home and the hearts of all of us!
It indeed feels so nostalgic to see those god bharai photos! Really, what a treat this blog will be for Sarah when she grows up. Through you, she would have known every feeling, mutual experience, her ever changing personas, her little discoveries, her explorations..!
And, then, 10 or 20 years hence, when you visit this blog and read your posts from the archives, each day will become live again.
The photos by themselves may not narrate the feeling going on internally in the moment. Besides, the photos get so lost in the ever burgeoning sea of clicks that it's not easy to pull one out from the archives.
So, keep recording your caravan :)